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Anyone else want to call me one? While me and my OH who has special diet needs live off £650 a month and I give up normal things like clothes (I walk round in £6 pants), I have not been to a hair dresser since I was 14 years old, I dont go out, my 21st birthday money has all gone on the dogs. So that I can give my dogs EVERYTHING when they need it.

So you tell me who in their right mind would want to live off £650 a month when they have to pay gass, electric, tax and food?

My animals have never missed vet treatment, never missed a vaccine, never missed out on toys every month, they get the best food, they have their monthly medication, they get health tested.

But yeah I am ******* rich arnt I?
 
#102 ·
Get some cooking lessons

then the £3 bag of chips (which are from what i can see from the ingredients the same as asda £2 for 2 bag chips they actually say Coeliac Uk Registration No Cuk-r-001
I'm guessing you've never had M.E then?

By the time he made all these specialist foods he would have no energy left to eat it! It's must easier to have something ready made that just needs stuck in a microwave because when you have ME every single little bit of energy counts trust me!!

Just like whoever said you can work aslong as you can talk. Not the case when you have the jaw problems related to the likes of ME and it's too painful to talk, you are unable to write due to the pain and your energy disapears in minutes just trying to concentrate on something.

I think you need to have experianced the illness SC has before saying 'make your own food' because it's not simple as that.

Luckily I'm nearly better and going to start working in the new year but when I was bad I had to be followed around because I'd do things like forgetting to turn the hair straightners off or getting up in my sleep making sandwiches with a sharp knife.
 
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I'm guessing you've never had M.E then?

By the time he made all these specialist foods he would have no energy left to eat it! It's must easier to have something ready made that just needs stuck in a microwave because when you have ME every single little bit of energy counts trust me!!

Just like whoever said you can work aslong as you can talk. Not the case when you have the jaw problems related to the likes of ME and it's too painful to talk, you are unable to write due to the pain and your energy disapears in minutes just trying to concentrate on something.

I think you need to have experianced the illness SC has before saying 'make your own food' because it's not simple as that.

Luckily I'm nearly better and going to start working in the new year but when I was bad I had to be followed around because I'd do things like forgetting to turn the hair straightners off or getting up in my sleep making sandwiches with a sharp knife.
Hun he has a carer to do the cooking.. And here is something I suggested to me mate.. and she is just purely lazy.. when ya do the shop.. make as many foods up as you can then freeze into little tubs so they are ready to go in the micro when ya hungry.. :)
 
#104 ·
I'm guessing you've never had M.E then?

By the time he made all these specialist foods he would have no energy left to eat it! It's must easier to have something ready made that just needs stuck in a microwave because when you have ME every single little bit of energy counts trust me!!

Just like whoever said you can work aslong as you can talk. Not the case when you have the jaw problems related to the likes of ME and it's too painful to talk, you are unable to write due to the pain and your energy disapears in minutes just trying to concentrate on something.

I think you need to have experianced the illness SC has before saying 'make your own food' because it's not simple as that.

Luckily I'm nearly better and going to start working in the new year but when I was bad I had to be followed around because I'd do things like forgetting to turn the hair straightners off or getting up in my sleep making sandwiches with a sharp knife.
Ok, without wishing to sound ignorant, what's the difference between preparing your own chips, using spuds, that are cheap and cheerful (do McCain really extract the gluten from their chips). You wash them, use a sharp knife to chop into chip shapes, whack the oven up full, cover with oil in a baking tray, toss them around to coat, and bang 'em in.

You buy a bag of chips, you use something sharp to open the bag, you put them on a tray, bang em in the oven to cook, or deep fat fry.

You are open to injury with both those options and they are both pretty much straight forward :confused:
 
#106 ·
didnt just say him did i :)

i do know about ME actually i know how even getting out of bed can be a struggle even if you can, i also know that your are meant to push yourself to do something every day so please dont assume anything
 
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#107 ·
SL if you are a carer then why do you not get carer's allowance?
Carer's Allowance - introduction : Directgov - Caring for someone
I dont get carers allowance because the government dont see M.E as a illness so he doesnt work due to dyspraxia (however its spelt) and my mother has just put in for me as her carer so we need to wait for her carers papers as mum's just been told about 2 weeks ago that shes never going to get better.

Also I refuse to have a chip pan fryer in my house they are dangerous.

I do cook for him, stir fry, chicken, casarole's but he needs food that he can pop in the oven while I am busy with my mum or busy with the dogs as he needs to eat ever 2 hours because he doesnt get energy from food.
 
#108 ·
I dont get carers allowance because the government dont see M.E as a illness so he doesnt work due to dyspraxia (however its spelt) and my mother has just put in for me as her carer so we need to wait for her carers papers as mum's just been told about 2 weeks ago that shes never going to get better.

Also I refuse to have a chip pan fryer in my house they are dangerous.

I do cook for him, stir fry, chicken, casarole's but he needs food that he can pop in the oven while I am busy with my mum or busy with the dogs as he needs to eat ever 2 hours because he doesnt get energy from food.
Emma do you mean a chip pan.. or a deep fat fryer...
 
#109 · (Edited)
I dont get carers allowance because the government dont see M.E as a illness so he doesnt work due to dyspraxia (however its spelt) and my mother has just put in for me as her carer so we need to wait for her carers papers as mum's just been told about 2 weeks ago that shes never going to get better.

Also I refuse to have a chip pan fryer in my house they are dangerous.

I do cook for him, stir fry, chicken, casarole's but he needs food that he can pop in the oven while I am busy with my mum or busy with the dogs as he needs to eat ever 2 hours because he doesnt get energy from food.
Dyspraxia Foundation - Living with Dyspraxia

Dyspraxia in the Workplace
 
#111 ·
I dunno how you still have the patience to explain yourself hun, the fact is most (not all) think those on benefits are dossers and scum.

I remember replying to a thread recently. I explained about my mums situation as she is on benefits and the attitude was basically "well she still shouldnt be claiming she should work!"

Cant please em all ;)
 
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#112 ·
this is laughable...why the hell you have to justify

1)how many dogs you want or can care for
2)how much you spend on food
3) your families' health issues

is completely beyond me.

SL, don't feel you have to justify yourself. Some people on here have behaved terribly and I feel that it has been completely uncalled for. :mad:
 
#114 ·
I dunno how you still have the patience to explain yourself hun, the fact is most (not all) think those on benefits are dossers and scum.

I remember replying to a thread recently. I explained about my mums situation as she is on benefits and the attitude was basically "well she still shouldnt be claiming she should work!"

Cant please em all ;)
Wait til they hear people in my situation are allowed to claim full benefits aswell as earn £96 a week for a year without any money getting taken off to make sure they are well enough for work :eek:
 
#115 ·
I dunno how you still have the patience to explain yourself hun, the fact is most (not all) think those on benefits are dossers and scum.

I remember replying to a thread recently. I explained about my mums situation as she is on benefits and the attitude was basically "well she still shouldnt be claiming she should work!"

Cant please em all ;)
I haven't got any probs with people on benefits.. I always look for away to help people as in.. can we find a cheaper way of cooking or preparing or buying something :)
 
#116 ·
I'm guessing you've never had M.E then?

By the time he made all these specialist foods he would have no energy left to eat it! It's must easier to have something ready made that just needs stuck in a microwave because when you have ME every single little bit of energy counts trust me!!

Just like whoever said you can work aslong as you can talk. Not the case when you have the jaw problems related to the likes of ME and it's too painful to talk, you are unable to write due to the pain and your energy disapears in minutes just trying to concentrate on something.

I think you need to have experianced the illness SC has before saying 'make your own food' because it's not simple as that.

Luckily I'm nearly better and going to start working in the new year but when I was bad I had to be followed around because I'd do things like forgetting to turn the hair straightners off or getting up in my sleep making sandwiches with a sharp knife.
Thanks :D

i've had ME since i was about 7 years old.

It's not like i could not go to school so i was off school for like months at a time because of it not like i've just decided i can't work because of this.

You guys need something better to do than suggest ways i can't do things.
 
#119 ·
Thanks :D

i've had ME since i was about 7 years old.

It's not like i could not go to school so i was off school for like months at a time because of it not like i've just decided i can't work because of this.

You guys need something better to do than suggest ways i can't do things.
I've had it since around then too and had to leave school at 13 because I became so ill I couldn't be around the crowded enviroment of a school and it was too tiring traveling to classes. Friends ditched me and I was left alone really. Became too ill to even have my curtains open and had to be in a darkened room at and at times my sight would just go. But because I could still talk I was obviously well enough to work :confused: I worked my ass off to be homed schooled only for 10 minutes a week and because I was so determind I done 3 exams and got top marks in them all. Not much to some but something as simple as being well enough to shower on my own was a huge acheivment.

Slowly over the years I've managed to get better mainly because of my animals because they are always there for me. I have lots but they are the reason for me being so well without them I'd probaly still be unable to write or move with pain. So insulting someone for having too many animals isn't right unless you know the circumstances behind them all.
 
#120 ·
I've had it since around then too and had to leave school at 13 because I became so ill I couldn't be around the crowded enviroment of a school and it was too tiring traveling to classes. Friends ditched me and I was left alone really. Became too ill to even have my curtains open and had to be in a darkened room at and at times my sight would just go. But because I could still talk I was obviously well enough to work :confused: I worked my ass off to be homed schooled only for 10 minutes a week and because I was so determind I done 3 exams and got top marks in them all. Not much to some but something as simple as being well enough to shower on my own was a huge acheivment.

Slowly over the years I've managed to get better mainly because of my animals because they are always there for me. I have lots but they are the reason for me being so well without them I'd probaly still be unable to write or move with pain. So insulting someone for having too many animals isn't right unless you know the circumstances behind them all.
I take my hat off to you hun.. you have worked very hard to become who you are now.. xxx

But I dont think I have insulted Sl and boyfriend for having to many animals.. my point was she has probs with scorcher and she may be best dealing with scorchers probs before she goes and gets another puppy that wil be more time energy. :)
 
#121 ·
I've had it since around then too and had to leave school at 13 because I became so ill I couldn't be around the crowded enviroment of a school and it was too tiring traveling to classes. Friends ditched me and I was left alone really. Became too ill to even have my curtains open and had to be in a darkened room at and at times my sight would just go. But because I could still talk I was obviously well enough to work :confused: I worked my ass off to be homed schooled only for 10 minutes a week and because I was so determind I done 3 exams and got top marks in them all. Not much to some but something as simple as being well enough to shower on my own was a huge acheivment.

Slowly over the years I've managed to get better mainly because of my animals because they are always there for me. I have lots but they are the reason for me being so well without them I'd probaly still be unable to write or move with pain. So insulting someone for having too many animals isn't right unless you know the circumstances behind them all.
You come a long way then, i've not had it that bad all at once mine i struggled through and then i'd end up in hospital for weeks and they'd have no idea why.
 
#122 ·
How the heck do you do that then???
They want people who are disabled back into work so you can work part time for a year while getting the wage. It's so people don't feel like they have no support from benefits if they aren't well enough in the end. It's a good idea but I don't think many people are aware of it sadly.
 
#123 ·
Thanks, but he gets low rate care component for Dysprxia which means we are not able to get carers allowance.
thats the crappy goverment for you.

I have a friend whos dad has terminal cancer, her mum cant claim carers from him even tho both have no money now bcause it has made them have to give up thier jobs

i honestly dont understand who makes up all the stupid rules for carers and disability allowence.
 
#124 ·
I take my hat off to you hun.. you have worked very hard to become who you are now.. xxx

But I dont think I have insulted Sl and boyfriend for having to many animals.. my point was she has probs with scorcher and she may be best dealing with scorchers probs before she goes and gets another puppy that wil be more time energy. :)
Thanks. People seem to think I've magically got better etc but there's been months of tears and pain behind it all.

Cheeko had problems with other dogs but we got Blu. Some people would have frowned upon it (and still do) but it was actually better for him that we got a puppy because he's got over his problems that he had. Depends on the individual dog and circumstances I guess.
 
#125 ·
thats the crappy goverment for you.

I have a friend whos dad has terminal cancer, her mum cant claim carers from him even tho both have no money now bcause it has made them have to give up thier jobs

i honestly dont understand who makes up all the stupid rules for carers and disability allowence.
Yeah i know how you feel it's crap, the government don't really care about the people who are truly ill just more about stopping people from defrauding them, it's not fair.
 
#126 ·
I looked after Mother for years...had to give up most of my work...couldn't get the crap £40 odd carers allowance cos I was earning more than £70 with what little work I could do a week....big deal.
 
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