If you can't see dad, if the breeder isn't the owner of the stud, there should be a mating certificate you can see, showing description of the cats mated, and date of mating ( litter will be born approx. 2 months after mating so just check numbers seem about right for age of kittens being viewed). First viewings can be from 1 to 2 hours or more depending how long you've already spent on the telephone/email, so take a few spare toys, breadsticks and juice etc, you can't think straight with a bored/hungry toddler. Hope you find your perfect kitty.