Is the term i'm looking for 'smother mother' because that can cause a hell of a lot of damage...

Yes...my kids....adults now.....are really damaged.....I dont think. You are obviously on the wind up. Nevermind.....

 

But you do?

Its getting boring now........are you that sad that you just want to argue?

 

Are you serious?

You dont stop being a parent just because your kids are adults.

In a few months my kids will be 17 and 19, so no longer 'kids' in the grand scheme of things. I will never stop being their dad but hey, they're adults now...its time to treat them as such. They need to make their own decisions and choices as they see fit, not be henpecked...

 

Its getting boring now........are you that sad that you just want to argue?

Nope...thought this was a discussion thread?

 

Im sorry but a child younger than say 11 shouldnt really be walking the streets anyway..there is no reason why a child under that age should not have a parent or an older sibling etc for supervision..and its not about there being a perv on every street..its about them being safe and a young child has no real idea of safety and wouldnt spot danger.

It's a wonder the human race managed to survive at really.

 

Okay getting the feeling that there is something going on here that does not relate to this thread. Come on people, stop with the nasties. Butterfly's, rainbows and bunnies

Honestly...I have tried but I think this will end in more bad feeling. Some are not capable of leaving bad feeling on one thread and move on but as its not my thread I will be courteous and leave. Loved your posts on this subject btw

 

Stop being a drama queen (king) dont flatter yourself that I single your posts out....you are just like any other poster on here. Dont keep dragging crap from one thread to another.

You do single out my posts though, and visitor messages. Just look at the author of the latest deleted post on my wall.

Why pick me when many others who don't have their own children had posted beforehand?

It's obvious you singled out the post you did, because of who posted it.

There is no other reason, why you would ignore others, then suddenly have the views you stated after I posted.

It's obvious you hate me.

 

Slightly true, i know when i was older i was never home when my mum said and i reveled in going home past midnight

I was a very naughty girl. I can remember aged 14-15 asking my nan ( I lived with nan from age 14) if I could stay at a friends house for the night, she said yes and instead I stayed out all night with friends with cars doing donuts round the fields ...went skinny dipping at the school outside pool too

 

Honestly...I have tried but I think this will end in more bad feeling. Some are not capable of leaving bad feeling on one thread and move on but as its not my thread I will be courteous and leave. Loved your posts on this subject btw

Um, sorry but as an observer I see the only one who has mentioned dragging crap from one thread to another is yourself.

 

Can we please keep the thread on topic and not go dragging issues over from other threads, its a really interesting subject and it would be a shame to have to close it so early on.

 

Can we please keep the thread on topic and not go dragging issues over from other threads, its a really interesting subject and it would be a shame to have to close it so early on.

Have I been naughty by mentioning my antics ?

 

Have I been naughty by mentioning my antics ?

I distinctly remember telling my mum that i was staying at a friends house, i was around 15. I woke up on a massive rock in the park with an awful hangover

 

I distinctly remember telling my mum that i was staying at a friends house, i was around 15. I woke up on a massive rock in the park with an awful hangover

I did something similar...hiding the lovebites on my neck inflicted by what must have been a trainee vampire was a problem though!!!
:lol:

 

Have I been naughty

Hell yes :lol:

 

I did something similar...hiding the lovebites on my neck inflicted by what must have been a trainee vampire was a problem though!!!
:lol:

Ohhh yes i remember the countless times i wore a scarf in august :lol:

 

Ohhh yes i remember the countless times i wore a scarf in august :lol:

Didn't look as odd as a guy wearing a polarneck in june then!!!
:lol:

 

Didn't look as odd as a guy wearing a polarneck in june then!!!
:lol:

Aha probably even odder seeing as i wore at 7 am in the morning at the breakfast table. Looking back now i think what a tw*t!! She knew what was under that scarf :lol:

 

What makes me laugh is how daring and well stupid i was. For example i was in the car with my mum the other day. We were at some lights and i was looking at an old disused train factory. They used to repair trains in it so it had like a huge hole in the floor and twisted stairs. There is also a little wooden balcony about 70ft up (this is where you start thinking hmmm she knows what it is like inside, she used to go playing in there). Now this factory hasnt been used in my mums lifetime and it has seen better days. Anyway i turned to my mum and said "do you ever look back at stuff you have done and thought what in the hell was i thinking" she said yes and asked why. At this point i pointed at the little wooden balcony and said "thats where i used to sit with my boyfriend, getting drunk and doing teenage stuff". The balcony is hardly there now and my mum asked me to never speak of what i did when i was a teenager ever again or she would go prematurely grey, but i think i had a very very good childhood and even better teen years

 

Hehe...naughty kid!!!

 

I did something similar...hiding the lovebites on my neck inflicted by what must have been a trainee vampire was a problem though!!!
:lol:

Toothpaste !! We were told toothpaste got rid of them...so not only were you walking about with a stiff neck...you smelt of Colgate also :lol:

Not that I ever had them:rolleyes5:

 

Toothpaste !! We were told toothpaste got rid of them...so not only were you walking about with a stiff neck...you smelt of Colgate also :lol:

Not that I ever had themn:rolleyes5:

Yes!! I was told toothpaste worked, it never did for me what i did discover worked is you know that rubbish halloween make up you can buy form the the co op and such?? The white stuff from that on them with a darkish foundation on top worked a dream

 

Yes!! I was told toothpaste worked, it never did for me what i did discover worked is you know that rubbish halloween make up you can buy form the the co op and such?? The white stuff from that on them with a darkish foundation on top worked a dream

I think as an almost 16 year old lad, makeup was not an option!!!

 

I think as an almost 16 year old lad, makeup was not an option!!!

Yea but if you blended it well no one would be able to tell :lol:

 

I think as an almost 16 year old lad, makeup was not an option!!!

no but growing a beard was lol

 

no but growing a beard was lol

Or he could of got one of these, probably wouldnt be able to tell the difference between this and a real beard and mustache