My OH managed to really upset me this last week by being completely insensitive (he's away at his Dad's so i can post without fear of him catching a glimpse of this). Last week he moaned that he had a really long and stressful week with lots of responsibility - looking after the two cats!!! This is after i had a REALLY stressfull week looking after 26 girls at a camp & also as I'm usually the one making sure one of us is home to feed the kittehs so he can go out drinking. & then... he sent me an MSN, when i was at work, telling me that one of his friends got engaged. And he expects me to go "oh thats soo great" - after we have been together for about 12/13 years with no sign of the much wanted ring. I can't believe that he is so insentive about this when he knows exactly how i feel. Sorry - i really needed to vent!!