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Why are men so insensitive???

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by JoWDC, Aug 15, 2009.


  1. JoWDC

    JoWDC PetForums VIP

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    My OH managed to really upset me this last week by being completely insensitive (he's away at his Dad's so i can post without fear of him catching a glimpse of this).

    Last week he moaned that he had a really long and stressful week with lots of responsibility - looking after the two cats!!! This is after i had a REALLY stressfull week looking after 26 girls at a camp & also as I'm usually the one making sure one of us is home to feed the kittehs so he can go out drinking.

    & then... he sent me an MSN, when i was at work, telling me that one of his friends got engaged. And he expects me to go "oh thats soo great" - after we have been together for about 12/13 years with no sign of the much wanted ring.

    I can't believe that he is so insentive about this when he knows exactly how i feel.

    Sorry - i really needed to vent!!
     
  2. Nicci

    Nicci Guest

    Aww, most don't have brains hun and when they do have to think it makes them ill :(
    I'm sorry your sad :( x
     
  3. 3 red dogs

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    Its In A Mans Genes Hun.... Or should that be Jeans!!
     
  4. Ladywiccana

    Ladywiccana PetForums VIP

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    Dont be sorry huni, most men im afraid are like this!

    EXACTLY pmsl :001_tt2: :eek:hmy: :smilewinkgrin:
     
  5. Nicci

    Nicci Guest

    Yeah I wouldn't worry about things, it took my hubby over a week to notice I'd dyed my hair he just kept saying "You look different but I don't know why"....he got man flu at the moment so he really is having to think a bit harder, it must be something to do with taking the dogs Incurin the other day :D
     
  6. JoWDC

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    Thanks for your kindness everyone. Found something to cheer me up though (watching a romcom probably not my best move) - Jack Sparrows on tv mmmmmm.
     
  7. 3 red dogs

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    oh gawd, dont tell Wiccy!!!
     
  8. PoisonGirl

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    Don't worry your man is not the only one thats insensitive!

    I have booked myself a beach hack on monday, andhave to be at the stables for 9am. It is something I have been wanting to do for ages and my son is just away to his granny's for the week so I thought why not. My OH complained that he would not get a lie in!

    x
     
  9. rebenda

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    Aww dont beat urself up about it hun! they can be v insensitive at times! i know my ex was well i think he was more of a D**K, what i have to look forward to when i meet someone lol

    (((HUGS)))
     
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