The thread about 5 things made me think about what I would have changed if I could. I said I wish I'm met my OH years ago as he's such a unique and special person, he really puts up with so much from me and doesn't ask for anything. He's extreamly understanding of my need of 'space' and my quiet rediculus independance and pride. We get on like a house on fire but he knows I'll never live with him or share a house (unless we win the lottery and we can buy a HUGE place with 2 houses and acres of land!!). So my wish would to have met him 20 years ago and not gone through the other blokes who said they respected my life choices but really thought they could change me! (Fools!!) So what would you have changed if you could?