Hey guys, i dont know wherever you can remember a few months back this thread about my mum -http://www.petforums.co.uk/general-chat/196365-im-going-through-such-tough-time.html anyway i thought i would update you and thats i have my mum here now shes been here 3 weeks this friday, she turned up at a friends flat, cause Dennis had chucked her out me and my boyfriend went straight round there and was talking to her and we offered her to live with us, shes extremely under weight shes about a size 6/8, shes told me very personal things about what Dennis has done to her, shes suffered 2 heart attacks, and took over doses, the places we have been to have said shes very high risk cause shes suicidal and very depressed ive been to all different appointments with her, this mental health place where shes had assessments done, and shes had appointments with a domestic violence women, where she has talked about her situation, she has got the money for the house thankgod, even though he has spent alot of what she had before, she says she feels sorry for him, but like everyones told her hes playing mind games with her, she has so much of her stuff at his house, me and the boyfriend went a week ago, to get some of her stuff, police didnt allow her to go though just incase she fell for him again, but he didnt answer the door. But this monday i rang again, and had to ring dennis and arrange it with him, so police met up with us, and we managed to get quite a few of her things, after a ton of abuse of him! she managed to get basics like clothes and towls, im so happy though cause i managed to get our cat Spice (the tabby one in my avatar) shes 17 this year! (gonna post about her in the cat section) was so happy though, cause i kept saying to Dennis we want the cat and he was like f*ck off shes my cat now! but we went into his garden to get some of mums things out his garage he was pretty drunk and i started calling Spice and she started miawing and was on the fence so i got her and put her in the carrier case, Dennis turned the water works on and was like spice im going to miss you so much - i just walked away with the police! Spice has been negleted and shes quite under weight (will post in cat section) But for now im getting Spice back on her feet, looking after my mum, going to appointments with her to get herself sorted, and making sure she stays away from him, he knows our address hes sent her a love note saying he loves her so much hes going to peices i kept reminding my mum not to fall for it, he only cares about her bank balance not her! hes just a complete peice of scum! We are thinking about moving cause he knows our address he thinks shes lives with us, but we told Dennis the other day that shes living in a homeless shelter, also we are only living in a 2 bedroom flat, and her things are from her old house, and what she moved into his house, so we just dont have the room. anyway im trying to the best i can for my mum and Spice im so glad there here though, after 2 years of going through complete sh1t i finally feel things are beginning to look up!