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They really do know...

Discussion in 'Cat Chat' started by Tawny75, Oct 8, 2019.


  1. Tawny75

    Tawny75 PetForums VIP

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    I have been upset really hurt today by the unthinking mean ignorant actions of my sister, I very rarely cry but this evening I have been. My two lovely cats have not left my side, Lily is currently sat on the arm of my chair and Sev is playing with his ball thing at my feet pausing occasionally to just look up at me.

    They really do know, don't they?

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  2. huckybuck

    huckybuck Feline Forum Fashionista

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    They do know and it’s lovely that they are looking after you.








    Stuff your sister - you can’t be sad when you have a beautiful, bright, cheery blanket like yours by your side. It’s enough to put a smile on anyone’s face.

    Wipe those tears away dear Tawny - don’t let her get the better of you xxxxx
     
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    You have Lily and Sev- sympathetic and caring and loving- forget about that sister of yours.
     
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    I always describe Tipsy as my Little Rock, she always seems to know when you need looking after.

    I know how tough it can be with sisters, I have two. I always remind myself you will never change how they are or what they say but you can change how you react to it to try to keep yourself sane.

    Hope your two Little Rock’s keep cheering you up.
     
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    I’m glad you have the support of your two furry ones... they can always be relied upon :)

    hope you are feeling better soon

    Hannah
     
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    Hugs to you @Tawny75 am so sorry to hear you are so upset.

    So nice to hear your twosome are great therapy though. Its how it should be
     
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  7. Charity

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    You always hurt the ones you love they say. Whatever it was don't dwell on it, just love those beautiful cats of yours. xx
     
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    lymorelynn UN Peacekeeper in training
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    It's lovely that Lily and Severus know you need them :Cat
     
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    I'm sorry you've been hurt. But you have two lovely babies caring for you; focus on them instead:Kiss
     
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    I’m so sorry you’ve been hurt. People can be so mean. Glad you have 2 beautiful loving furries to give you cuddles. It is amazing how they understand so well isn’t it. Funny thing is even Ringo absolutely knows when I need cuddles - but then a lot of equine communication is through body language so perhaps it isn’t that strange!

    Here’s a classic Flint to make you smile!
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  11. Tawny75

    Tawny75 PetForums VIP

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    You are all so lovely.

    The blanket is one I am making for my Mother-in-law, I am hoping to get it finished in the next couple of weeks.

    The terrible twosome are still with me and have not left my side all night.

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  12. huckybuck

    huckybuck Feline Forum Fashionista

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    It is utterly gorgeous!! The colours just beautiful.

    Hope you are feeling brighter tonight xx
     
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  13. Mrs Funkin

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    Oh @Tawny75 - it's easy to say and less easy to do but "Sod her". People are just nasty sometimes, I always try to remember that they are probably short of something in their own life that makes them be mean to someone else. It's often jealousy I have found. I am very sorry you are so upset - but I am happy that Severus and Lily are being so gorgeous to you. I hope things seem less awful today xx

    P.S. beautiful blanket, you are so clever :)
     
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    How can that not cheer you up and make your day
     
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    AW @Tawny75 I hope you're feeling a bit better today, sorry you had a rubbish day yesterday. Good to see the kids looking after you.
     
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    Hope today is better, xx
     
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  17. Tawny75

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    Thank you all, I had a good cry last night on the phone to my daughter and feel much better today.

    Onwards and ever upwards :)
     
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    Bless them both! They know Mum is upset and needs comforting.
    Please don’t let your sister make you so unhappy. I do hope that you can make up though. xxx
     
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    We will, don't worry. She will always be my best friend in the whole world which is why i was so upset. It will clear in a couple of weeks :)
     
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    I’m the youngest of three sisters and we’ve had many a tiff! It’s because of the closeness that we feel we can get away with being verbally a bit cruel. Lol! xxx
     
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