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Discussion in 'General Chat' started by sandymaynard, Aug 3, 2009.


  1. sandymaynard

    sandymaynard PetForums Senior

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    I have decided to remove the words drom the thread!
    Thank you everybody who has been kind to me and offered me support and kindness!
    And being there for me no matter what!
    I am staying I am going no where!
    Sandy
     
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  2. scosha37

    scosha37 PetForums VIP

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    So Sorry you had to go threw all that petal ..:(


    You do not need to explain your self to no one on here just be your self ..:)

    I wish you all the best for the future xxxxx
     
  3. rottiesloveragdolls

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    I have pmd you, you shouldnt have to explain yourself to anyone :(
    dont let them drive you away as well :(
     
  4. MySugar

    MySugar PetForums Senior

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    That's awfull :( What a traumatic experience. And it's a shame you felt the need to explain yourself, as you said, people should not judge.

    I am a little concerned though, as you had to change your name is it safe for you to put this info along with your new name on a public internet forum? Just worried you could put yourself in danger if the new name is protection.

    I hope we still will get updates on little JD :)

    Look after yourself and don't let people in cyber space upset you.
     
  5. Classyellie

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    As Sharon has said, you do not need to explain yourself to anyone hunni. No-one knows what another has been through and even if they did they have no right to judge.

    Sorry that you've been through so much hurt. I'm really happy for you that you've found happiness with your fiance

    [​IMG]

    Ellie x
     
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  6. rona

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    I so sorry that anyone on here made you feel that way, as you know, I was very pleased to have you back.
    I have always loved your enthusiasm and humor.
     
  7. sandymaynard

    sandymaynard PetForums Senior

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    Thank you all for your kind words! I am okay he doesnot know anything! I have protection from police when and if he is released from jail!
    Thank you all for being there for me!
    Sandy
     
  8. rebenda

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    So sorry u went through that hun, i dont know what gone on on here as im a bit oblivious but dont let them bullys make u go as well:( deff keep usupdated on JD! :)

    Becky
     
  9. MySugar

    MySugar PetForums Senior

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    That's good, i'm glad he doesn't know anything. I just was concerned with this being a public forum.
    I hope you are feeling like you can stick around as you are liked by many here :)
     
  10. Inca's Mum

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    Aw Sandy, you shouldn't feel the need to explain yourself on here. It must've been so hard to even think about telling us all of this, let alone writing it and posting it for us.

    [​IMG]
     
  11. sandymaynard

    sandymaynard PetForums Senior

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    It took alot of courage to write it down!
    Thankyou!
    I am going no where! I am here to stay!
    Sandy
     
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  12. rona

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    Your going to have to stay, you know you are going to love telling us all about JD's antics :D
     
  13. rottiesloveragdolls

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    Glad to hear it, if you get any nasty pms then forward them to Mark Admin or a Mod, they then will sort out it out and GIVE WARNINGS or BANS to those who do send horrible pms to poeple ;) theres no need for members to get personal x
     
  14. Nicci

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    Sandy, now I'm not having a go so please don't think that :)

    But do you think it's wise to publish these facts when you have had to have your name changed and may need police protection at some point in the future pending your ex's release ?
     
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    I think we all share problems, so no need to explain.

    Just sending you warm thoughts and a cyber hug :)
     
  16. sandymaynard

    sandymaynard PetForums Senior

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    Hi nicci
    I fully understand where you are coming from! If he does get released in the future and the police are going to try and stop that!
    I can't live my life in fear of him! I fully understand where you are coming from! and did not take it the wrong way!
    Sandy
     
  17. turkeylad

    turkeylad PetForums VIP

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    Sandy - Keep posting and dont feel you have to explain yourself to any ***!!!! and İ dont swear!!!!
     
  18. Nicci

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    I'm so sorry Sandy that you have had to be faced with all this, but you do sound like a very vunerable lady and I for one am very concerned about you and the fact that you have chosen to publish what should be a very private matter.

    There are all sorts of nut jobs that scour internet forums such as this one, and not all people out there are nice I'm afraid to say.

    Anyway, I'm off to edit my previous post just incase you do decide to edit yours :)
     
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    You didnt have to explain yourself to me,think we all post a bit strange now and then, sometimes its only when I read some of my posts back I suddenly think why did I say that in that way :rolleyes: but thanks for sharing. You'll be ok just dont respond to anything that feels like its having a dig at you. Most on here are nice people
     
  20. Indie

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    Wow you have been through alot hugs to you. You shouldn't have to feel like this i sometimes think the internet is a very nasty place.
     
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