A friend of mine is likely to have to say goodbye to her 15 year old boy tomorrow. They think he has a tumour and if confirmed with his age and tumour type the hardest decision may be the kindest. She has had him since 7 weeks I remember meeting him back then he is such a sweetie. Shed a tear or two today for her, for him and for Topsy. I have been back through the forum as I remember someone writing me a lovely poem that I will share with her tomorrow. Also reminded me what a great place this is when you need it the support I got was amazing, reading back through that thread I really welled up. Makes me look forward to the meet on the 22nd a bit more.