afernoon all, I have a few quick questions: 1) we are currently feeding the monsters 3 times a day at the moment, always have done and it fits well in to life schedule. My question is when should i start cutting down to two? 2) how often should I bath a white cat, or any cat for that matter? And any recommended good quality shampoos? 3) my girl keeps suckling herself, its bloody disgusting. We picked her up at 18 weeks and she lived with her parents so it may not be separation anxiety, can any one shed a light?