My best mate has split from her husband but they are going to see if they can continue to live under the same roof but leading seprate live's. I get on very well with them both so don't want to get involved with taking side's. My problem is he came to drop off some sand for my daughter's school project and then asked me out . I made a joke off this but it is now making me feel awkward. 1: I would never ever date a friend's ex. 2: I haven't dated in over 9years since having my daughter and spliting from her dad she is my first and only priority. 3: I am happy with my own company and to be honest i wouldn't know what to do LOL. 4: I am very cynical why would you ask out your wife's best mate. To get back at her and upset her well i am not that sort of person. really don't know how to handle this he is a nice guy but not for me. I now don't want to go see my friend in case he is there and i am not going to tell my friend as i hope they will get back together. Any advice welcome YES I am happy 3kids, 4 Cats, 1 House rabbit, 2 Hamsters and fish who need's a man not me.