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Oh my Lord, Someone STOP Me!!

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Patterdale_lover, Mar 27, 2011.


  1. Patterdale_lover

    Patterdale_lover PetForums VIP

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    So a few of you know of the situation with my ex well didn't speak to him for a month had a little down moment and stupidly messaged him and we left it on a good note.

    Anyway a week later having a nosey moment and I see he is all buddy buddy with the people that split us up when he said he hated their guts etc.

    SO messaged him just now taking it all back and he replied saying "Nice..."

    OMG SOMEONE TAKE MY LAPTOP OFF ME SO I CAN STOP TALKING TO HIM.

    If I do it again I'm gonna cut my fingers off so I can't type. :cool:
     
  2. bexy1989

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    but then you can't type on here :yikes:

    just block him and then you can't see who hes talking to etc, if he wants to be an idiot then its his fault, some people are idiots
     
  3. jon bda

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    Delete him, find someone worthy of you...'cause it don't sound like him hon!!!
    :)
     
  4. Patterdale_lover

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    Sadly it's facebook so I can't delete him, have deleted his number and msn etc.
     
  5. katie200

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    Put the pc down and go have a drink :D
     
  6. KathrynH

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    Just block him and then you cant see what he is doing etc :)
     
  7. lifeizsweet

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    You can delete him on facebook..... do it.
     
  8. Sarah+Hammies

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    You can block him on facebook so you dont see anything he does and he cant see anything you do!
     
  9. Patterdale_lover

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    Oh I have already but can still send messages, shall block him in a sec, i have no self control!
     
  10. lifeizsweet

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    Do it hun, you need to cut yourself off and start a fresh. :)
     
  11. Patterdale_lover

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    See thing is I don't love him anymore, but I still care :( He was my best friend for like a year or so before we dated.
     
  12. lifeizsweet

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    I've had that too, honestly i couldnt imagine my life without my 'best friend' I took the steps to cut it off from him and met my fiancé... Closing one door always opens another ;)
     
  13. Sarah+Hammies

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    I agree!

    Willpower and some positive thinking is what you need :thumbup: You can do so much better than him so try looking to the future instead of into your past.

    Unfortunately when you start a relationship with your best friend and things go sour theres no going back, things wont be the same as they were before after all of this hun.
     
  14. Patterdale_lover

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    Love hearing things like this,always give me an extra kick up the ass!
    :D

    Yeah I guess haha just a dithery cow I am. Takes alot for me to get attatched to someone and ALOT to detatch from someone :eek: Oh well

    I WILL SURVIVE!

    JUST GOTTA STOP GIVING IN TO TEMPTATION.
     
  15. lifeizsweet

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    Don't get me wrong it took about 4 months to finally totally cut him off, but honesly within a week of being totally over him this boy i had served at the pub for about 6 month suddenly stood out to me! - he says he'd always liked me but could tell i wasn't looking out for someone for a few months before he asked me on date....well....wedding next year.

    I DO miss my ex/best friend, i really do, but what i've got now is better than what he could offer me.
     
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  16. Sarah+Hammies

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    It must be hard. (((hugs)))
     
  17. Starlite

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    Give someone the laptop charger to hide so you dont go back on and message him lol!

    Be strong hun xxx
     
  18. Patterdale_lover

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    If he replies I'm giving the laptop to my mum who will delete the message haha, I doubt he will though. I have pissed him off now and he will "hate" me for the next couple of weeks.
     
  19. Bellarina

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    I don't really know your situation but I'm going through the exact same thing at the moment and it's sooooo hard. It's tearing me apart but I just can't cut all contact but I know it's making the whole thing worse. So you aren't alone. Hope it gets better for both of us very soon.x
     
  20. metaldog

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    You can unfriend and block him on FB :)
     
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