So heres the story. oh wudnt allow me to get another kitten so i was not pleased. there was a kitten in need of a new home and i told him if where it had gone didnt work i was havin it no arguments. so i started my thread to see if another cat wud mean twice the trouble or more relaxed sheldon and everyone said it would be good for sheldon. so my friend who i got sheldon off has a sister who has 2 dogs 3 kids and a cat and was gonna get another kitten in 5 weeks. she has now thought it wudnt get the attention needed so i have said i will have it instead. and oh is now gettin abit excited ha ha. i only have 1 question. sheldon is a year old and is neutered. would it be best to get a girl or a boy? bear in mind it wont be spayed/neutered till 6 months old?