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Now I am mad

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by bulldog200, Apr 15, 2011.


  1. bulldog200

    bulldog200 PetForums VIP

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    Right i dont usually get mad much but today i am
    I have been really concerned over a really good internet friend for 4 weeks now we were super friends and then 4 weeks ago she stopped talking ,i emailed her a few times and nothing ,last night i found out she had been online every night talking to her other friends , she has ignored my emails (and they not about me :D)
    and i only found this out cause i had to hunt one of her freinds down on facebook and ask them if she was okay , they told her i was asking about her ,HUH and still nothing .
    Sorry guys this has just made me so mad :cursing::mad5:
     
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    new westie owner PetForums VIP

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    Sorry to say but doesnt sound much like a friend :(
     
  3. bexy1989

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    She really doesn't sound a very good friend :( *hugs*
     
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    bulldog200 PetForums VIP

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    Thanks guys ,i actually not sad at the moment just FLAMMING cause a few months ago i stopped her from suicide and got her thro her breakup with her bf .
    she has some medical probs aswell .
    So i sat here thinking she ill or worse and all the time she has been chatting away to everyone else :mad5::mad5:
    Oh and when he asked her for me if she was okay she said to him "she has been busy with school and stuff "
     
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    vickie1985 PetForums VIP

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    oh sounds like such an amazing friend. i would be mad too :( bless ya
     
  6. bulldog200

    bulldog200 PetForums VIP

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    Hmmm food for though there .
    she has never been one to feel guilty about things
    she does know about some things with me and was supportive like i was to her ,but even when i was talking to her before she was starting to get a bit ,lets say weird .
    If she does contact me i will talk to her of course but today just mad :mad:
     
  7. Waterlily

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    she prolly just needs a break, thats ok and normal too.
     
  8. niki87

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    Yeah it might be possible that you remind her of those awful times. Might be worth just leaving off and seeing if she comes to you. If not then I would try and forget.
     
  9. sailor

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    Its a way of life...

    By the sounds of it, while she was depressed and with her boyfriend etc she was feeling and acting very differently. Clearly very clingy and needy for your friendship, help and support.
    Now she has got over that and she has moved on, she will have a different way of thinking and be moving on. she wont be as needy and clingy now that she doesn`t need the support.

    It might seem like your being ignored, she might be doing it deliberatly as you feel, or she might just want and need her space right now.

    Personally if she is a good friend to you and you value her, I would just back off and leave her to be. If she is a friend and she still values you, she wont be gone long and will come back for a chat when shes ready.

    Hope all works out and you feel better about it soon
     
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    bulldog200 PetForums VIP

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    Yeah i guess got to accept defeat maybe , :(
    another one bites the dust hey , ah well ,
    let her come in her own time :D
     
  11. bulldog200

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    Thanks guys :):)
    calmed down a bit now
     
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