Oh where to begin....i'm not so much angry as extremely hurt and fed up. I live with my OH and his parents and 4 brothers, 1 older 3 younger. It's been like this for over a year now and i'm desperate to move out. Due to finances it's not currently something i can do but hopefully i have my student bursary sorted out and as a result with the OH's wages we could possibly move out. The problem is my OH. Some days he's agreeing and saying we should move out then within a day he'll come back up with some reason for not moving out....this time it's the car costs too much (roughly £450 a month for payments, insurance and petrol) and theres no way we could support ourselves....i've worked out on my bursary and his wages we could afford to rent a place for upto £390 a month(thats how much we'd had left from bills, food, dogs and car) and theres places that are rented out for that much but then the OH comes up with "i don't want to leave my family", but then a few days later the whole cycle comes up again. Now one of the reasons this happens is because the OH's parents are alcoholics and keep taking as much money of the OH as possible for their beer. He feels if he left then his brothers would suffer as his parents would still spend the same amount on beer every day(roughly £25-30 a day), at least i think he feels like that...i'm not allowed to speak to him about any problems within his family as its not my business. His parents also runs up phone bills well into the hundreds a month and expect OH to pay them(sky goes through his account coz the parents owe them money from a different address) which he can't afford, they never have any food or essential items in and still expect us to be able to pay them rent(£75 a month each). Both his parents are on jobseekers, his dad gets money for being mentally ill(he gets depressed due to no money....stop drinking!) his parents get disability money for his youngest brother and in total they recieve about £1500 a month...the rent on the house is £500...yet they're always skint and pressuring OH for money, they used to do this to his older sister until she snapped and told them where to go. They make no effort to find any kind of job which makes me angry as i don't qualify for jobseekers(even before being a student i couldn't) and yet i'm always looking for jobs and they constantly fight when drunk, usually with my OH or one of his brothers(ages 20,17,14 and 11) about stupid little things. They make out they don't have any problems and the whole worlds against them and it drives me mental!!!!! Sorry....just really needed a rant as i'm sick and tired of living here!