A family member of mine is getting married in 2 weeks. It's apparently quite a big "do" and pretty much all my family are going. I've heard all her friends are attending too. The only thing is, me nor OH have been invited (to either the ceremony or the evening reception) Now I understand that I don't have a right to be invited, however me and her are really close (well, I would say we are more like close mates than family members lol) and I have been there for her throughout some rubbish times in her life, we're the same age and have grown up together, went to the same school, were in the same class etc. I just feel really confused and quite hurt that she hasn't even invited me to her big day. Her hen night was last night and I sent her a message and a congratulations card wishing her a lovely time & a lovely wedding day but had no response. I haven't done or said anything to upset her. She called me about a week ago to just chat and we spoke a little about the wedding and she was telling me about her dress but she just seems quiet with me now. As I said earlier, I didn't sit around thinking I had a "right" to be invited, but it would have been nice to celebrate the big day with her and her new husband. Thoughts please? Am I being dramatic?