Hi everyone I need advice. We’ve been thinking about a dog for ages and always liked the frenchies. We felt it was the middle ground for us in terms of size and excersise needs. My OH has been keen as was I but I do a lot of research compared to Him. We had put a deposit down and then I was in a few other French bulldog forums. I saw the sheer amount of concerns raised by other owners about Illnesses and being left alone. I started having doubts and thinking maybe it wasn’t a good idea seen as we work and the dog would be on his own 3 days a week 8-4 with someone letting it out for the toilet mid day. My partner kept saying it was fine and I spoke to the breeder who also worked and said they would be fine. However, the more and more I read the more anxiety I get feeling like I’ve made a mistake. I’ve voiced this to my partner and he said all Dogs accustomise but I said that all dogs aren’t French bulldogs and maybe we need to consider this breed is more specific to seperation anxiety. I’ve suggested maybe giving the dog back to the breeder whilst he is young enough to be rehomed. In all honesty I don’t think they care much as they didn’t ask us any questions about our lifestyle and maybe if they had it may have made him think. I’m the one worried that is leaving him will cause seperation anxiety and am worried about how this will affect the dog as he gets older but my Partner thinks I’m being stupid. When I’ve mentioned taking the dog back he says he wants nothing to do with it and said I can arranage it all on my own. The dog so far is a really good pup. Sleeps a lot, learning basic commands, sleep through the night and is getting some toilet training. My partner said it’s the best pup he’s had but I said he isn’t no where near being a teenage dog yet and the worst is yet to come. What shall I do? Would the breeder take it back, have I lost all the money? Am I wrong to worry or am I right? I just want to do right by the dog.