Recently my GF got a cat. I already have a cat and he has lived with other cats his whole life. I moved out of an apartment that I had been living in since he was a kitten with two other cats and he has seemed lonely and bored. Me and my GF have been talking about getting a kitten and she decided to get one. She spent a long time finding the right one and then took a week off work to stay home and try and form a bond with it. The kitten is really skidish but has started to warm up to her but for some reason has really taken to me. I think a big part of it is the kitten see's how affectionate my own cat is towards me and mimics that, or seeing that makes the kitten more comfortable approaching me if my cat is. Regardless the kitten has really taken to me, will rub up against me, last night I woke up to her asleep next to me. All this stuff that the kitten won't do with my GF. I think part of it is I'm just good at reading animals and their boundaries, my GF likes to pick up and cuddle the kitten when it's pretty obvious that makes her nervous, while I let her approach me or slowing approach her. My GF is a little jealous and I feel very bad. She said she was worried the cat will like me more and she doesn't even feel like it's hers. She loves the little kitten don't get me wrong but I honestly see where she's coming from. I don't get it, I will call the cat and she will come but not to my GF. She was pretty sad all week saying that the cat likes me more, which honestly it seems like it does. I work days and she's home all day with the cat and I'm not even home that much, animals just love me and I can't help it and don't know why. I don't know what to do, I try to not pay much attention to the kitten and let them bond and just pay attention to my own cat but the kitten keeps approaching me and rubbing against me even if I'm not paying attention. My GF realizes what she is upset about is petty and that she's being a little unreasonable being upset. She hasn't gotten angry or upset at me at all but she's obviously a little sad. I want to make her feel better and I want to stop making her jealous. I really don't know what to do here or how to go about making it right. She's not upset at me but I hate seeing her sad. This is a weird situation I know.