I'm in a bit of a situation regarding a friend of mine. Basically she lives about 10 miles away (but has a car) and well recently she's been randomly turning up at my house unexpectedly, wanting to come in for a cup of tea/a chat. There's nothing bothering her, she just wants to chat about random stuff and will stay for a good hour (maybe two) or so. I hope I don't sound awful saying this but I really don't like the way she just turns up without even asking if she can come over - it always seems to be at really inconvenient times too, i.e I'm eating or just settling down for the evening. I've tried to have a word with her about it but she then text me a day later giving me about 15 minutes notice of her coming over. I must admit the past couple of times I have hid upstairs and looked out the window incase it's the postman and have purposely not answered the door if it is her but I really don't want to live like that lol! I feel awful for doing so but she's popping over at least 3 or 4 times a week. She's not lonely at all and has quite a few friends... so I am guessing she's not lonely and just wants a chat, however I need to say something to her. I just don't know how to put it lol. Am I being horrible for feeling like this??