LONG BUT I AM BEGGING FOR HELP HERE PLEASE As most of you know I am a carer for my mum who has multiple health problems. Well, I am at the end of my tether now. I really do not know what to do. My mum had a friend who lives across the road, call her Sarah. Sarah has 9 children but only 4-5 live with her. They are a pretty messed up family and we have ALWAYS had problems with them. Sarah's 29 year old son Danny bullies my 10 year old brother Ben. Well sarah has a daughter called Lauren and she's 23 however she's very immature for her age and HATES me going to my mum house. Every time I go she text's my mum asking why I have to be there. A couple of weeks ago Lauren pm'd me on facebook and called me and my mum fatties and my little brother Ben a ****. My mum says this cant possibly be Lauren and my mum thinks the sun shines out of Lauren's ass yet Lauren has not denied it was her. Well 2 days ago apparently Sarah told Lauren to pack her bags and get out. Sarah and Lauren's brothers say that Lauren said she was leaving not that Sarah kicked her out. Apparently Sarah kicked her out because she stuck up for Ben against Danny and her 13 year old brother Greg who were picking on Ben. Well, my mum took Lauren in. Even though Lauren doesnt want me to see my mum. And so it starts..... When I was younger (about 11) my mum decided to take in ANOTHER kid and tret her better than a daughter. She would say how perfect Amy was as a daughter and Amy would kick my head in daily.....for 2 years this happened. (Amy was 15 when I was 11). After 2 years my mum kicked her out. Well, Lauren was only suppose to be staying with mum until Tuesday but every attempt mum makes to ask her about getting her own place/sorting herself out she wont talk! Just looks at mum. I took Ben, and he's staying with us currently. Well 2 days ago I went over and Lauren would NOT sit in the same room with me. I ended up stud out in the rain because I felt uncomfortable. Well yesterday I took Ben over to get his egg's and sort some stuff out and Lauren walked out of the house and refused to come in while I was there. She also refused to go shopping with mum and me because I was coming. To say I felt uncomfortable is an understatement!! Even Ben noticed Lauren would not be in the same house as me. When I ring mum to let her know Ben's okay, Lauren listens in! Well today my mum has got her mum to come over, now I have not seen my mums mum (she does not deserve the title grandma) in 10 years. My mum has begged me to attend even though she knows I hate "grandma" and only have 1 grandma which is my dads mum. Well I have agree'd to go for my mum's sake but its going to be even harder because Lauren's there. Well...........last night Ben started crying. I got it out of him after an hour of pestering. He said that he knows mums going to give Lauren all the attention and he's going to be left with no mum. Because........she's been doing that for a week now before Lauren moved in. I gave him a hug and told him I would be his super sister - mum- mix if it came to it. I have told mum about all of this and all she says is "what am I suppose to do".