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My world has fallen apart

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Ducky, Jul 24, 2009.


  1. Ducky

    Ducky PetForums VIP

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    i cant believe i am here to write what i am about to.

    My beautiful boy Bailey has been killed in a tragic accident and i have never felt such pain and grief like this.
    He was only 19months old and the happiest dog. He was the thing i cared about most in this world and the past 2days have been the hardest days of my life.
    We had been at the park on wednesday night and he was behaving like an angel coming back everytime i called him. It was then i spotted a fox across the field. i tried to get his attention before he saw it but i was too late and he was off like a shot into the dense bushes beside the railway. myself and my mum were 20mins trying to call him back and to find him. but we couldnt see him. just at that, i heard a train coming, and the sound that nobody wants to hear, the emergency brake. he was killed instantly. the train driver said there was nothing he could have done to stop quicker. i am completely devastated.
    my mum is worried that i'm blaming myself, and of course there is obviously a million thoughts going through my head but the fact is my baby is gone. far too soon and far too young. it will take a long time for the pain to go away.
    i just wanted to say thank you to everyone who has made me feel welcome on this forum, but i might take some time out at the moment from coming on and posting.

    RIP Bailey...mummy always loves you x
     
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  2. vickie1985

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    really sorry to hear of your loss :( x
     
  3. Inca's Mum

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    Really sorry for your loss, it's hard but he'll be waiting for you at Rainbow Bridge watching over you ((hug)) xxx
     
  4. sequeena

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    I am so so sorry :( This is terrible news.

    We completely understand that you want some time away x

    RIP Bailey run free :( xx
     
  5. Baby Bordie

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    Awww, this is sooo sad! :(:( Dont blame yourself! R.I.P Little one! :(
     
  6. HighlandQuine

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    I am so sorry for your loss. :(

    RIP wee one
     
  7. MADCAT

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    I am so sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you.

    RIP Bailey xxxx
     
  8. cassie01

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    oh no, what an awful thing to happen!!!! im so sorry!! sending hugs to you x x x

    run free at the bridge bailey x x x
     
  9. DevilDogz

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    Oh how awful.we are all here you need a chat.But we understand you will need time away! Dont blame your self there really was nothing that could have been done!

    RIP Bailey...sweet dreams
    xx
     
  10. ad_1980

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    No!!! Not cute Bailey :(

    I'm so sorry honey. RIP bailey. thoughts are with you. Don't blame yourself hon it could happen to anyone. It does happen to someone, almost every day. Its not your fault.
     
  11. Indie

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    I am so so sorry hugs coming your way xx
     
  12. brackensmom

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    Oh Ducky, i am soo sorry for your loss, thoughts with you. Big hugs.
    RIP Bailey- run free at the bridge
     
  13. rona

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    So sorry that this has happened to your beautiful dog.
    We all know how you must be feeling

    RIP Bailey
     
  14. thedogsmother

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    Omg I think the title of this thread says it all. This is a terrible accident pure and simple and nobody is to blame, Bailey died doing what dogs love, chasing after something, its terrible that it ended this way but he wouldn't have been in pain. Please don't blame yourself. Run free at the bridge Bailey xx.
     
  15. Barney

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    So sorry to hear of your loss xx
     
  16. LadyRedLainey

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    So sorry to hear that! :( how tragic xxx
     
  17. PoisonGirl

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    I am so sorry to hear of your loss! I can't even begin to imagine how devistated you must feel. *hugs*

    Run free Bailey, rest in peace.

    x x x x x
     
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    oh no how terrible im so sorry to hear of your sad loss:( x
     
  19. marion..d

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    i am so so sorry. a terrible accident.....
     
  20. sandymaynard

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    I am so sorry for your loss! Don't blame yourself it was not your fault!
    Remember he had a love in his life and that was you! He loved you like you loved him!
    Don't blame yourself about it! I understand that you are hurting! I will be thinking of you! Don't be a stranger and don't be alone in your time of need we are all here for you!
    Sandy
     
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