Hello I have two shittzu dogs one age 13 and one age 10 my 13 year old is fine at day times but on a night he starts scratching and jumping on the table and whimpering . I have put the chairs on the table each night now to stop him climbing. Me and my husband work full time and have 6 kids so this behaviour is making me ill emotionally physically and mentally to. They have always slept in the kitchen we bought a high dog gate as he doesn’t like the door closed and I’ve ordered a anxiety plug in and vest which was recommended by the vets. He will not take tablets. He’s getting snappy aswell at times . I don’t no what to do any suggestions would really help thank you all so much . I’ve had enough I’m so tired ? He can’t sleep upstairs due to my daughters breathing issues and I’ve never let dogs up the stairs anyway .