This morning i came to the conclusion that apart from my mum i cannot trust a single family member because they are full of lies and back stabbing bitchyness. I am fuming beyond belief. I always knew there was gossips but my dad and my nan have taken it too far. I am hurt. They don't even know me like they think they do but they apparently have the right to say such nasty things that i know i don't deserve. I have a few really good friends who have always stood by me and to my knowledge have not stabbed me in the back, alot of people say friends are your chosen family, so to you, who is 'more important' or to but it in a better way, who is more likely to be there for you? Family might be there in a crisis but it's only because they feel obligated, where as friends choose to help you out. Right?