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Message from Mr Chillminx.

Discussion in 'Cat Chat' started by Annealise, Apr 9, 2021 at 12:18 AM.


  1. Annealise

    Annealise PetForums Member

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    I Just wanted to let you all know that I heard from Stef's husband today. He said thank you so much to everyone who posted the lovely tributes to Stef.

    I have asked the Florist who is making the Cat floral display for Stef's funeral to send me a pic for you all to see the end result soon. I know many of you who knew Stef would want to know that the Funeral is taking place next Thursday at 1.00pm. I shall be attending and will say farewell to Stef from all of her dear friends on PF.
     
    #1 Annealise, Apr 9, 2021 at 12:18 AM
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  2. Nicola234

    Nicola234 PetForums Senior

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    Lovely, thank you for keeping us updated x
     
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    Thank you for updating us
     
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  4. SusieRainbow

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    Thanks for the update, so pleased that Mr Chillminx liked the tributes. There can be no doubt regarding the love and respect for Stef, a truly treasured forum member.
     
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    Thank you for the update. I hope Mr. Chilliminx is comforted by the tributes to Stef and knows what a valued and appreciated member she was.
     
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  6. Bertie'sMum

    Bertie'sMum Obedient Cat Slave

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    Thank you for letting us know.

    If you know the time of Stef's funeral next Thursday could you let us know please ? I, for one, would like to light a candle in her memory at that time.
     
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  7. Annealise

    Annealise PetForums Member

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    It is at 1.00.pm.
     
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  8. OrientalSlave

    OrientalSlave Shunra Oriental Cats

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    Thanks. Will the funeral be streamed? If it is, can we all 'attend'?
     
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    Thank you @Annealise, I hope the messages have brought Mr Chillminx some comfort.
     
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    Thank you for this update.
     
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    Annealise PetForums Member

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    I don't think it is but I can double check.
     
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    What a lovely idea!! I will do the same.
     
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  13. Bertie'sMum

    Bertie'sMum Obedient Cat Slave

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    It's an old tradition - to light the dearly departed on their way.
     
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    I know, a lovely tradition, it's something I often do. Too often these days.:(
     
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    huckybuck Cat Chat long lost friend

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    Thank you Annelise for sorting out the flowers - I am sure they will be a wonderful tribute to Chillminx.

    I will also be attending the funeral with Annelise and I am very grateful to Stef's husband for including us both in the limited numbers that will be allowed to be there.

    It will be an honour to represent everyone here and send all the love to Stef as we say goodbye to her.
     
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    I'm sure we'll all be there in spirit too.xx
     
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    Thank you both for attending and saying goodbye for us all. You're going to need long arms to carry all our love for her in them.
     
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    Thanks Annelise for the update and for arranging the floral tribute. I think Cully is right about needing long arms to carry all the love.

    I am off work that day and shall light a candle for Stef, too. It still seems so shocking that she is no longer with us.
     
  19. Annealise

    Annealise PetForums Member

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    You are very welcome, its the least I could do.

    Yes it all still seems surreal as one minute I was messaging Stef in the hospital and then..... I almost feel I am going to meet up with Stef next week instead of attending her funeral, as still can't quite grasp the situation.

    Its so nice to hear friends will be lighting candles for Stef.
     
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    Thank you so much for letting us know @Annealise i am so pleased that you and @huckybuck are attending to say all our goodbyes to Stef. My good friends sent me a lovely candle for my dear sister which is called Angel wings I know my sis would be honoured to share the light for Stef.
    it still seems so sad not seeing posts anymore! Miss her so much.❤️
     
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