hey all i didnt get buffys bother in the end but my neighbour may have to get rid of her cat and i said id have him if she did. He is such a gorgeous cat hes completely grey and just gorgeous. He is the cat that has came over a few times and buffy wasnt keen on him so i was wondering if anyone can sugest tips on how to get the two cats to get on if i have him. He doesnt seem to react to buffy when she gets a little funny he just sits there and looks at her which is good but he was bought up around another cat and i think he got put in his place a few times. Is there any way if they did atempt to bring him over again i could get buffy to relax a little its mainly when he gets quite close to her she doesnt like it and i make sure her fav toy isnt on the floor hehe shes funny bout her meerkat. Any tips would be great. Im not sure if im having him yet but if i do i want to be prepared.