I have been out on a few dates with a new man, he is gorgeous (Vernon Kay lookalike-but nicer), very kind, lovely to chat with, good job and really good company. BUT....and it a huge but for me....I have found out he smokes weeds nearly every day. I am gutted that he is a pot head I am REALLY anti-drugs, I know weed/hash isn't hard drugs, but to me still drugs and illegal. I also dislike anyone who drinks alot, I prefer clean living folk Dependency on alcohol/drugs shows character weakness and potencial for issues later. I feel I can no longer date him, and told him this. I think its a dirty, common, harmful and filthy habit. Am I being harsh?