Ok, this will probably be long, so anyone that is willing to read the whole thing, thank you! I found out two days ago that my youngest brother (I'll call R), 18, and his girlfriend (I'll call T), just 18, are expecting a baby. They have only been together 6 months at the very most, and both still live with their parents. T's mum has told her that if she keeps it she will throw her out (her parents like things done properly, and she has only just left school, they think it's too soon). My mum has said to my other brother (I'll call J) that if T is thrown out she will let her move in there. This has annoyed me, alot! In my opinion they are both too young and immature for kids, but it is their decision, so if they choose to have the baby they should find their own place, not rely on mum to look after it for them, which is what will happen if they live there. It has also annoyed me as there are sooo many people desperate for kids that can't have them, and because of their stupidness their now expecting one when they have no clue what it will really be like, and have had no lives themselves. They are always arguing, and falling out too. T has no idea about the real world. She has everything paid for by her parents, even her car insurance and petrol! Because of this she has no respect for anything, and will get the latest thing in fashion, and change it when it's out of date. How will she cope with a baby? Well if she's living at mum's she won't have too, as mum will look after it when she's not at work. R has a bit more of an idea about the real world, he has always had to pay for his own stuff. He has said before that he doesn't want kids while he's so young, he wants to have a life first. My step dad has said he doesn't want a baby in the house full time, but if mum decides she can move in then that's what will happen. What should I do? I'm not supposed to know about the baby yet, so can't talk to R or T about it. If I talk to my mum I feel we will fall out, as alot of things will probably come out, but if I don't talk to her about it then we will fall out too as I always have been treated different to my brothers, and I feel their baby will get treated differently to my little boy too which I will not put up with. Or am I just being an interfering fool, and should just keep out of it???