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Discussion in 'Cat Chat' started by jill3, Jan 24, 2012.


  1. jill3

    jill3 PetForums VIP

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    We hate being in our house at the moment.
    Loosing Harley on Saturday and Yazmin on Monday is the worse thing ever to go through.
    Poor Chloe is not eating as well as she should and everytime she hears a little noise she looks to the door to see if Harley is going to come through it.
    She slept with us last night and we have been having lots of cuddles.
    She cries and that sets me off.
    She is crying now and searching round the house.
    I know she knows he's died because we had him with us on the Sunday so she could say goodbye to him and i know she did do this.
    The trouble is that when you work from home you can't seem to get away from the sadness.
    Today we all got up late and have now decided to keep busy and prepare for the future.

    Thank you for all your help and replies to our Rainbow Bridge Tributes it really does help. Love Jill and Ian and Little Chloe xxx
     
  2. buffie

    buffie Mentored by Meeko

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    My heart goes out to you both and to Chloe.It is such a wretched thing to go through.To lose one, especially a young animal,is hard enough but then to lose another so quickly is very sad.As I'm sure you know it does get better and eventually you will have all the lovely memories,but until then,it hurts like hell.Take care xxxx
     
  3. salkei

    salkei PetForums Member

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    Dont quite know what to say, it must feel horrible, but take strength in the fact they know you loved them and they loved you.

    Take care xx
     
  4. Jenny1966

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    Havent been on here much recently, and it's heartbreaking to read what's happened.

    I'm so very sorry, it must be absolutely devasting for you :(

    Hard to find words, because I know nothing I say will help with the grief .....

    ((big hugs)) to you, Ian and Chloe xx
     
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    Space Chick PetForums VIP

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    Just sending you, Ian and Chloe all my love x
     
  6. Treaclesmum

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    Our kitties bring so much joy to a house, that to lose one is always so painful, the place seems so empty and quiet even when 1 dies, but to lose 2 so close together must be really hard for u guys. Hugs from me and Treacle and Jumpy xxx :(
     
  7. Ally-Kats

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    My sympathies to you at this very difficult time, so sorry, RIP Harley and Yazmin and run free at the bridge.
     
  8. sarahecp

    sarahecp Crazy Cat Lady of Bucks

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    Thinking of you all. (((hugs))) to you, Ian and Chloe xxx
     
  9. Oscars mam

    Oscars mam PetForums VIP

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    Omg I'm so so sorry I wasn't here yesterday and totally missed what had happened! I've just had a look to catch up and I have to say I was crying :( I don't know what else to say other than I'm sending you all (((hugs)))) xxx
    Run free Harley and Yasmin :( xxxxx
     
  10. MoggyBaby

    MoggyBaby PetForums VIP

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    Four legged friends
    are a very special part
    of any family.

    Special thoughts are with you
    now that you've had to say goodbye.



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  11. wellsandmittens

    wellsandmittens PetForums Member

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    I am so sorry for your loss, I can't imagine what you are going through at the moment. I hope it helps a little that there are so many thoughts from posters on this forum with you at the moment. I wish there was something more practical we could do to help.
     
  12. Dally Banjo

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    :crying: ((((((((Hugs))))))) xxx
     
  13. merlin12

    merlin12 PetForums VIP

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    Really sorry for your loss.
     
  14. Alaskacat

    Alaskacat PetForums Senior

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    I'm so sorry for your awful tragic loss. My thoughts are with you all. I wish I could say or do something to take the pain away. RIP Harvey and Yasmin x
     
  15. ella

    ella PetForums VIP

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    Oh Jill, I'm so sorry. When my lad died the house felt so cold and empty, and to have that happen twice is just a tragedy.

    Take care
     
  16. Iheartcats

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    I'm so sorry for your loss {{{HUGS}}}
     
  17. Mummy of Jaffe Joffer

    Mummy of Jaffe Joffer PetForums VIP

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    I'm really sorry for your loss. Hugs from me and Jaffe xxxxx
     
  18. ChinaBlue

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    So very sad for all three of you. At the moment your hearts will be so full of the losses you have suffered but given a little time you will remember the joy and smiles your babies brought you and hopefully the pain will ease. Meantime little Chloe needs you both as you do her and you will come through this awful time with closer bonds.
     
  19. Jocatza

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    2nd attempt to post my sincere sympathies for you. I can hardly type for tears as I have been in the same position. I can still remember how empty the house felt, how much it hurt just thinking of my beautiful friends and the big black hole their deaths left in my heart.

    RIP Harvey and Yasmin.
     
  20. Tonti

    Tonti PetForums Junior

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    My thoughts and sympathy are with you. Losing one is bad enough but two inso short a spacemust be truly awful.
     
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