Okay so recently I joined a gym, I sat down with the owner who asked me the routine questions and the discussion went as follows.... Her: Do you smoke? Me: No. Her: Do you drink? Me: Not really, only now and again. Her: Do you drink when you go out? Me: I don't really go out, I've never been to a night club or bar, I only really "go out" when I go to family meals. Her: Wow, you really haven't lived your life! Now that stuck with me, I'm 23, I'm married, I've been with my fella since 2007 (I was 17) before I met him I was a carer for my autistic brother, I wasn't allowed out with friends unless he was out with his other carers (for 2 hours on a Wednesday 4-6pm) So my question to you all, When you were 23, did you go out drinking with friends? Have you "lived your life"?