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Just really upset

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Nicky10, Jun 7, 2010.


  1. Nicky10

    Nicky10 PetForums VIP

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    It's been a really bad couple of days. As some of you may know I have a friend staying here who's just out of an abusive relationship. The guy turned up twice the police had to be called at which point a friend moved in to make sure we were ok with his gsd, big soppy thing wouldn't hurt a fly but the guy's scared of dogs. Anyway he turned up saw the dogs left then the police turned up saying Buster and the gsd had attacked him. He dropped it after a couple of hours but still it was scary. Combine that with running into the one person I never want to see again and it's been awful.On a positive side she's never going back to him which is good.


    Sorry just needed to get that out you don't have to reply or anything
     
  2. tafwoc

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    Oh god hun, what a traumatic time you've had. I hope its over now and that your friend can start over.
     
  3. Cazza1974

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    As long as you are all ok. And what a thing to have to go through.
     
  4. Nicky10

    Nicky10 PetForums VIP

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    It should be over now and she's coming around slowly.
     
  5. JANICE199

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    I hope your friend is ok.I know only too well what its like to be in her sittuation.The one thing she will have to see for herself is,this guy will NEVER change his ways.I lived for years thinking the idiot i was married to would change.He never did.:(
     
  6. Nicky10

    Nicky10 PetForums VIP

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    I think she saw reason yesterday sort of but it's a long process right. She only has 5 months to realise she's pregnant and he'll probably hurt the baby too
     
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    Don't let him make her feel guilty!! I threw my oh out even though we are still friends because he was drinking all the time and verbally abusive. Hes trying to make me feel guilty by saying I can't cope on my own and I will be different this time :D Bull is what I say. When he comes here now and he starts his nonsense I just tell him to get home!!!
     
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    Sorry to hear you're not having a good time of it lately :(

    There must be a special circle of hell reserved for the sort of person that would physically assault a pregnant woman. Just sick.
     
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    well done you for being there for your friend when she needs you so much...
     
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