I have a bit of a trust issue, i tend to be rather gullable and so people will lie to be and because of this i trust very few people. Well me and the OH have had some money problems recently and he spoke to his brother about it as he needed to because of paying of his holiday with them, i got a message off his EX girlfriend not long ago saying 'did carl lend you that money' so im rather annoyed as it wasn't his bother place to talk to anyone about our problems let alone his ex girlfriend. My oh only spoke to his brother as he thought he could trust him, well we were wrong. grr! its annoyed me so much!