I've posted already about the reason why I'm experiencing a puppy blues. My pup is quite nice, respond to orders, sleeps at night, etc. I just don't love him. I do everything for him mechanicaly, but I feel nothing, I don't even think he is cute. I feel only for my cat, and can't seem to enjoy any second spent with my pup. I come to a point where I can't even relax in my living room where the play pen is, because he is there. My point is : I do everything needed for my pup (though, with the puppy blues and roller coaster emotions, sometimes I just burst for little mistakes...), but I give him 0 love, it just doesn't work out for me. I only want to spent time with my cat, I may not be a dog person ? Plus I'm scared of the type of relation I'm growing with my pup, because Ionly give him mechanical things (training, walks, food, cuddles), but no joy coming from it. When I'm on the verg of bursting I get to my cat and relax near him. I wanted this puppy, I was happy about it, knowing what time it would take, but the fact is, I feel nothing for him now. I'm even happy to have duties to be away. I'm scared of what I'm building, if I should keep going on like that, or if I should rehome my pup so he is raised with love, and just come back to a life full of love for my cat. I'm at a complete lost. I'm also scare to be seen by my family/friend as a moinster, or not understood. My cat and pup are at a neutral state. They don't look for each other they just want to be with me. But I want only to be with my cat. And my cat can't be with me when the pup is near because he feels uncomfortable, and in 2 weeks it didn't get worse nor better. Maybe my cat feels it's hard for me and thus doesn't feel like trying either. My bond with my cat is really strong, since 5 years we go through everything together (hard life with no one to see because of constant moving from town to town due to my husband's work), he spends days with me, come cuddle purring on me 2 to 3 hours a day, and I literally can spend only few hours now with him, but he can't relax, he barely purrs, he doesn't enjoy the living room anymore even with the pup in his play pen, so not able to come after him. I feel like I've betrayed my cat in a way. And I feel like it's getting worse.. Anyone else got the same situation where the puppy blues come from another animal that feels down because of the new comer and you can overcome it ? I think things would be really different if I didn't have my cat, so it's the core problem. What should I do ?