Since everything kicked off in March I've been helping my mum a lot more because she hasn't got a car anymore. My sister is agoraphobic and my niece is either busy or is wary of being out herself so it's down to me to help her do a lot of her shopping. I don't mind. She's my mum and she's disabled. I'm not going to let her go to P@H by herself, buy a large sack of litter, a sack of cat food, dog food and tinned cat food and let her bring it home HERSELF. My OH has been grumbling because I'm mostly out (even though he works nights anyway so sleeps in the day!!!) and today was the last straw. My mum is going to the doctors tomorrow afternoon and sadly there's no buses that will run her there. I offered to go with her and when I told him he said to me "Ha!! I knew it!!" WTF!!! I am so fed up of this attitude. My mum is 54, can't speak very well, is disabled and he expects me to just leave her by herself?? Get a grip and grow up!!!