Hi i will try to keep this short as poss. I moved to my house 2 years ago and my young daughter made friends with one of the neighbors cats (she has 5) My daughter was feeding him ham unknown to me at the time. after a while the cat started crying outside my back door on a daily basis. i tried to ignore him but after hours of him crying i would feed him some ham just so he would go away. for a few months i never saw much of the cat but when i did i noticed he was extremely skinny. he would approach me and follow me home begging for food. he spends all day in my garden or sitting by my door. i felt sorry for him so i have started feeding him cat food twice a day. problem is that between meals he is still crying by the door. i have never let him in my home as i am very allergic to cats. i feel sorry for him but his constant crying is becoming really annoying. I have no experience with cats so advice much appreciated. thank you!