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Discussion in 'Introductions' started by Ginger girl, Aug 10, 2009.


  1. Ginger girl

    Ginger girl PetForums Newbie

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    hello

    I am a new member and this site has been forwarded to me by a friend after the sad loss of one of my cats who was called scruffy.

    My cat was diagnosed with cancer of the jaw back in january and after a lot of sole searching and advise from my vet i had part of her jaw removed, unfortunately just over 3 weeks ago the cancer came back on the other side of her jaw and i was told there was nothing else i could do for her.

    Last week i had to make the devastating desition to have her put to sleep as she was not really eating anymore. I am absolutely devastated to have not only had to make this desition but also to have lost such an important part of my life and my family. I can't stop crying as i miss her so much even though i know it was for her own good. I now feel like i have a big scruffy shaped hole in my heart that will never heal.

    I do have 2 other cats who i love very much but it doesn't stop the hurt.

    I just wanted to share this with other people in the hope someone can give me some advise as to how to deal with this very very sad time.

    Thank you for listening to me go on

    Ginger girl x
     
  2. FREE SPIRIT

    FREE SPIRIT PetForums VIP

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    Hiya and welcome :)
    Im so sorry for your loss. :( ....You did what was best for your pet though. I know you will be hurting like crazy now but try to remember the good times you had with your pet. They remain in our hearts and minds forever. My thoughts are with you at this very sad time....xxxx

    R.I.P LITTLE ONE XXXX
     
  3. scosha37

    scosha37 PetForums VIP

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    Hi and welcome to PF..hope you enjoy your stay...:D
    Sorry to hear about your pet you did the right thing xxx
     
  4. Spaniel mad

    Spaniel mad PetForums VIP

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    Hello and welcome

    Im sorry for your loss but he is at peace now and can run free
     
  5. MADCAT

    MADCAT PetForums VIP

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    Welcome to PF xxx
     
  6. animallover111

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    Welcome to pf....sorry about your loss....xxx
     
  7. Rainbowlover

    Rainbowlover PetForums Newbie

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    hello there Darling, I'm sure your cat would thankyou for the wonderful life you gave her and give you a big purr for loving her. God Bless, I'm sure your pain will ease just allow yourself to love your beautiful cat for as long as you like and dont feel guilty about it. I'm sure she loved you too. xx

    welcome to pet forum
     
  8. Yourgifts Ourgifts

    Yourgifts Ourgifts PetForums VIP

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    Hi and welcome to PF..;)
     
  9. Ginger girl

    Ginger girl PetForums Newbie

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    A big thank you to everyone for their kind words and support xx
     
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