Needed to put some flea preventer on Jinks this morning and OH had to hold him whilst I put it on the back of his neck....OH has just said Jinks has been very stand offish with him and keeps giving him evil looks and wont come and sit near him! - I said are u upset -he said NO!! but because he had to hold him down jinks is blaming him and not me! and he has a go at me for being too cat orientated! LOL! I think it did bother him the big softy!