I want to make a person on facebook a friend but I am pretty sure she is friends with someone who I do not wish to know my business. I am interested in having a pup to show off this person in the distant future but I don't want the 3rd party to know anything I say to her as she is a s**t stirrer and will just cuase problems for me. It is bad enough they go to our ringcraft and so know what dogs I take and so know which dogs I am showing. Her husband keeps asking if I have given up showing whippets I keep saying know just having a break but I know he reports back to her. The breeder also says she has had problems with this woman but I know she has previously used this persons dog as a stud. If I make this person a friend will the other person be able to read anything I say to the first person?