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Exes are exes for reasons...!

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Emraa, May 26, 2010.


  1. Emraa

    Emraa PetForums Senior

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    I saw a guy for a few months when I was 20 years old and he was 18. I had the best time and I have never had so much fun, he cheated on me - it wasn't anything serious so I wasn't heartbroken!
    I have been single for almost a year (from a 10 year relationship) and he recently contacted me out of the blue (I hadn't even seen him since we split 11/12 years ago) and I get the feeeling there is 'something' there between us...should I just steer clear of him or sod it and have some fun? :rolleyes:
    I'm not even sure I am ready for anything but how will I know??
     
  2. simplysardonic

    simplysardonic Moderator
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    Have some fun, it can't harm if you're both single:D
     
  3. xxwelshcrazyxx

    xxwelshcrazyxx PetForums VIP

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    Go For It, he may of grown up, you never know until you try. It may work this time then again it may not, but you can try and have fun along the way. :thumbup:
     
  4. dobermummy

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    have some fun with him :thumbup:
     
  5. Starlite

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    A wise girl kisses but doesn't love,
    listens but doesn't believe,
    and leaves before she is left


    God bless Maryiln Monroe, love him and leave him hun :D
     
  6. Zayna

    Zayna PetForums VIP

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    i totally agree! Go for it... alot can change in a decade. maybe its meant to be!!!:thumbup:
     
  7. Emraa

    Emraa PetForums Senior

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    Wise words from a girl that was labelled an airhead! Gotta love Marylin :)
     
  8. Waterlily

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    Depends if he cheated once and was sorry or had a fling and got caught ;) Just go with the flow and be friends with benefits if ya want and if something evolved seriously then great if not then oh well ya both got laid :D
     
  9. simplysardonic

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    Hahahaha! Friends with benefits, love it. Thats how me & Mark got together, only we called it something a bit ruder:D
     
  10. Waterlily

    Waterlily Amused

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    yeah well I thought I would behave ya see and not say F*ck friends on here ;) :p :lol:
     
  11. GSDlover4ever

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    haha :thumbup:
     
  12. Emraa

    Emraa PetForums Senior

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    True!:thumbsup:
     
  13. Emraa

    Emraa PetForums Senior

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    Well, I have done it! This weekend I am meeting my ex for the first time in over a decade! And I am very very nervous! Partly because of who it is but also because the last time I went on a 'date' was almost 11 years ago!!:eek:
    Wish me luck!
     
  14. GSDlover4ever

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    GOOD LUCK! :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup:
     
  15. xxwelshcrazyxx

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    Wishing you luck and hope you have a lovely time.:thumbup:
     
  16. lisa0307

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    How did it go...:confused: :)
     
  17. Emraa

    Emraa PetForums Senior

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    It went ok Lisa, we got along fine, he hasn't really changed that much, just grown up a bit!
    Not sure if it will blossom into anything other than friendship at the moment, we aren't as carefree as we were 11 years ago! He has had a bit of a rough time with his ex plus they have a daughter together which complicates things a little.
    We were supposed to be meeting again today but something has come up! Hey ho!
    I will keep you updated...why aren't things simple in this life, eh?:rolleyes:
     
  18. Mum2Alfie

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    If its meant to be hun then it will happen! Just be careful, if he is going through a tough time its very easy to be sucked into his problems and it can happen quickly. Been there myself!

    Just be prepared to get alot of let downs. But good luck, I hope his life settles so that you can really see whats gonna happen.
     
  19. lisa0307

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    Couldn't agree more :) x
     
  20. Emraa

    Emraa PetForums Senior

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    Thanks, most people my age have some kind of 'baggage' but I will tread very carefully!
     
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