Well my oldest told ex that I wanted to meet his new wife, he wanted to know why and what did he think she was going to do. He said that if I got a new fell a that he wouldn't want to meet him, so can't understand why I want to meet her. Well I know for a fact he would be itching to meet any new man I had, I really can't understand why he is reluctant to have us meet. What happens if the girls eventually get married? Or have children of their own and have birthday parties or christenings?