My soul mate is the singer in my favourite band. We dated 23 years ago (yup, I was a groupie); it ended because of his heroin and alcohol addiction. But we still love each other and whenever he has a gig in London and I go, it’s like a crazy magnet. We can never be together though; he is and always will be an addict, and I know myself well enough to know that I can’t have that much temptation / mess in my life. I now no longer go to his gigs, but some of my friends still do.