Hi, I am new to this site, so am wondering if anyone has had a similar experience. Our cat went into a cattery unavoidably for 3 weeks. Previously she had been a house loving cat who liked to sit with us and was very friendly and liked to play. After the visit, she only wants to live outside and comes in for her food only when picked up and coaxed in. She makes a bolt for the cat flap and cant wait to get outside again when finished. She is still affectionate when we see her but she has definately changed. Any ideas please to coax her back inside. It has been 12 days now since returning home.