humphrey is now a 1 year old persian cross ragdoll. ever since day one i have noticed very specific difficulties he has. he has very clear abandonment issues, he displays alot of different behaviours. he has got cystitis and the vet says he has stress and anxiety problems. he is on those herbal tablets meant to help calm him and one of the pheromone plug ins. its been a while since he has been poorly yet still tries to wee outside his litter tray, im not sure if this is just a behavioural problem but he does seem in pain when he tries to do it, hes not quite poorly enough for the vet to really do much though. he has been neutered and i am home every single day. on a night i wake up to him howling for cuddles. he is very destructive but he is getting alot of play time so he shouldnt be this active. he has little twitches and anyone who has met him is quite aware instantly there is something not quite right with him. he has a very strong personality. he is hard to train into habits as he doesnt seem to know anything going on around him, every time he goes into my bedroom he acts like he has never even seen it before! he is not my first cat and i have never seen a cat quite like him. need this fixed as its causing me constant stress worrying about him. he cant even land on his feet when he jumps bless him, his body just smashes into the ground. has anybody had a cat anything similar or any ideas on how i can help him?