I need help. My 14 weeks old kitten has lived with us for 2 weeks now. He is healthy kitten according to breeder. First the kitten seemed to be extremely clever (he was able to learn his name and to sit only in couple of days) and very sweet kitten. Now all he want to do is to destroy the house. Of course we know that kittens are wild and they want to explore things as we have had 2 cats before and we also have experience from puppies. But this is something different and we feel that we cannot connect with our kitten. We have playing times for him and we play about 1,5-2 hours every day with him. We have lots of toys for him and we change the toys for him every day so that he doesn't get bored to the toys. We offer him raw food every day and we have meal times. He can also stay on our balcony if he wants to and we also try to activate him by throwing treats for him and by teaching tricks. He also has two climbing trees. However now he either stays in the balcony or concentrate on destroying the house (scratching and biting everything). He doesn't want to learn tricks, he doesn't want to play alone but he still doesn't want to play with us. We have encouraged him every time he does something we wish him to do (even when he is just laying on the floor) and we have made clear what he can't do by saying firmly "no" . We also have ignored his naughty behavior if it's clear it's made just for getting attention. He even might start destroying the house while we are giving attention to him. We are stressed out because of this. He clearly wants attention (he is often purring and walking around legs) but he doesn't want to be petted, he doesn't want to stay in lap and he often doesn't want to play either. What can we do? We won't get another cat so that's not the option.