I was hoping I might be able to get some advice or reassurance regarding career choices. I am a qualified nurse and currently working long hours as a community nurse. Everyone seems to think its a 9-5 job but realistically I do 8-7 five days a week. I find it a tough job and I feel very vulnerable working alone. I have just been offered a job in a very good nursing home, where I have been offered very good money, working three 12 hour shifts a weeks. And good prospects to work my up to management. This job would be great for me and Finlay, as that's four whole days ill be able to spend with him. But would I basically be finishing ruining my career by going into a nursing home. I am so torn!