tinker is booked in this coming week to be nutered for the 5/6th time as she is a stray it is verry hard to catch and dosent come in. i have had freinds help me try and catch her but she just diapears for days on end then. i have posted about this before looking for advice as i whant to do whats best for her as hard as it is. after earliers post i have to admit iv bn a bit weary of telling anyone but this forum has some fab people on it and some fab advice. my problem is as follows- my girl is young and small so i know from other storrys on here how bad it can end up i do not whant this for my girl . i have already spoken to my vet who has said they will still go ahead with spaying/nutering her but there is a higher risk of things going wrong because of her condition so my dilema is do i go ahead and take the risk n get her done or do i leave her have the kittens and risk things going wrong there. i have tried to talk to my husband and it has ended in a row as he said leave her to it or dump her i am livid over this. i did say as much as i dont agree with it i think having the opp is in her best intrest however its gonna have to wait untill end of the week as he is now refusing to pay for it so have to wait for my money to go in. basicaly i just need to know if im making the right choice and believe me it is a hard choice. (not to mention i still have to catch her in the first place) can i please have some genuine advice as this is so hard already. i know she shouldnt be in this position love her but she has always bn scared and run whenever i have tried to catch her. i feel like such a failure to her but genuinly am feeling lost.