Today has been a nightmare from the minute I got up. I have got into a habit of ignoring Bramble when I first come into the room until he calms down then I make a fuss. If I dont give him attention he starts his nonsense,same damn routine, this morning he stole a newspaper and tore it to shreds,next it was a CD which he broke into pieces which could of injured him if he had swallowed any. Next its dragging his blanket out of his bed and tear around the room with it, the list goes on. I try ignoring,try trading for a treat,but nothing is working to break this frustrating behaviour. He doesnt do it with hubby only me, it makes me feel Im to blame and doing something wrong. Ive tried time out but that doesnt work either. He is fed well,loved,played with,walked I really dont know how much more I can take of this behaviour its getting worse not better. I try not to get cross but sometimes I cant help myself when for the 3rd time he has wrecked something of a morning.:incazzato: We went for a 2 hour walk across the heath today I kept him on lead as he has gone backwards with re call which wasnt 100% anyway, the drive to hunt is so strong in him. On our last attempt at off lead at the park he was a real nightmare, got into an area where someone kept chickens and upset them, thankfully he didnt get to any. I am at a loss at to what more I can do and have got to a point where Im wondering if I have bitten off more than I can chew and would he be better off going to someone who could use him to work that hunting streak. He hates being on the lead thats clear as he grunts and pants to move off, but I cant trust him off lead.Ive worked so hard and seem to be getting nowhere after 6 months. All his naughtiness is saved up for me it seems, as when Im at work hubs says he's good as gold. He reduced me to tears today with his awful behaviour. When I come in from work he jumps up at me,Ive tried ignoring,turning away. I go to the loo, bedroom,kitchen and he is like my shadow. Again its only me he does it too Im so upset about all this and do feel like throwing in the towel...:angry:
Although he is well fed well, loved, walked and played with, it sounds like he maybe needs more mental stimulation and be taught to self amuse and keep himself occupied and have to use his brain more. The fact that when you dont give him attention he starts attention seeking behaviour that will get a reaction too possibly points to it, with the stealing things. That and possibly the fact that you could be mis- timing and not following through enough with the things that you are trying which can be a common mistake. Dont know how old he is but guessing he is probably in or fast approaching adolescence too when even ones that are pre-trained can start to not listen to commands, push at boundaries and do things like start to miss recalls. As his recall was not 100% before then its likely to be even worse or relapse even more if this is the stage he is at.
I personally would change his play, to more structured things, making him work to get his attention. If he has never been to training classes either or only did a basic puppy class this would be worth considering, as then you would get back up in a more controlled environment but at the same time be training with distractions.
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I would start in favour of wild play, start to do training sessions instead, in fact if you go to classes you can then practive what you have learnt doing several short training sessions a day practising them as well. Getting him to go through all the basic commands, and rewarding and treating when he gets it right. You can then mix this with play as well but structuctured play, using the commands, working on something like sit and wait while you throw a ball or toy, then a release with find it, then once he has picked it up, getting him to return it to you, then teaching a drop, and then a sit wait again while you repeat the whole game/process. This way he is learning commands, has to work for his attention,
it also teaches impulse control. Obviously you have to teach all the individually commands first, like, sit,wait,find it, retrive, drop, and then you put them all together bit by bit, in a structured form of rewarding play, but at the same time its still training and working, giving him mental stimulation as well as physical.
Also you need to use these commands in every day life too, getting him to work for anything he wants and that you are going to give him, which should help you gain control.
Looking at the whole structure of his day too can help. He gets walks, but at the same time he needs to have self amusement and wind down times as well as part of his day. After a walk, when he has gotten rid of excess energy, and more likey to be easier to settle, give him some down time, some pups and young dogs, will just keep going and going getting more any more hyper and wound up and have to be taught how to switch off and relax, the more interaction and stimulation they get often the worse they will be. Separating him with a baby gate in his own area and giving him something mentally stimulation to help him wind down should help as regular routine parts of his day.
Give him a Kong, if he is on wet food you can stuff it with part of his daily allowance, if on dry you can put it in a kong wobbler or Busy Buddy, keeping him occupied and having to work at it, You can also fill them with various other things too. Chews are another good thing, as chewing is a natural destresser for dogs. It should help him and you at the same time.
As regards his fraustration at being on a short lead and not being able to get rid of so much energy, try instead a long line, but at the same time going back to basics, with recall training, so again he is getting mental stimlation and interaction but from you instead. If you wants hints and tips on retraining and ways to make you more interesting just ask.
I would still carry on with the time out too, but you need to make sure of timing and following through. He needs to be put out at first signs of hyper active or unwanted behaviour, left until he is really hyped up and into it, then its all the harder to calm them down, some can get to a point they really lose the plot if too hyped and over excited. You need to leave him for long enough to let him calm down, then let him out, but say and do absolutely nothing at all dont even look at him. Continue to ignore him, to make sure he is going to stay calm and then call him to you and get him to sit then treat and give attention. If he starts to hype again straight away he goes out again, and keep repeating it until he gets the message. Be consistent, some take longer then others for the penny to drop, that jumping all over you, and doing unwanted behaviour like running around like lunatics, stealing things get them nothing, and calm behaviour and doing as they are asked does.
