Buddy is 14 months old. We have had him since he was 8 weeks. He is extremely cuddly and affectionate but only when our other cats are not in the same room. When the other cats are present, he will come for pets but that's about it. When he is alone with his humans, he becomes the biggest cuddlebug ever. Why? I really don't think he feels insecure. Quite the opposite, actually. He's overflowing with confidence and gets along well with the other cats. Any ideas why he only gets super affectionate in private?