I took my daughter to a 13th birthday party sleep over last night. - There had been much debate during the week if she could go as the girls were being allowed a 'limited' amount of alcohol, and wanted to watch 18 horror films. - My daughter wasn't sure herself if she wanted to go My daughter actulaaly said to me she wasn't sure if she wanted to go as she didn't want to drink and hates scary films. - (she's never seen an 18, in fact she's only seen a couple of 15's that I've seen previously and agreed they are ok, and I don't plan to let her any time soon) My girl loves fashionable clothes but I feel she dresses appropriately for her age - well after a few discusions with the parents of the birthday girl (and assurances there would be no 18 or horror films at the party) it was decided she could go to the party -so I go to drop her off and a gaggle of 13 year old girls appear, dressed in teeny shorts, high heels, waist belts with their vest tops pulled as far down as possible to show off their cleavage. And an inch thick of make up and 100 quid hair cuts. The first thing they say to my daughter is are you allowed any alcohol, we've got bicardi - I turned around and said Im a strict mum and she's not. It left me wondering if I'm out of date?