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Am I causing problems for my dog?

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#1 ·
Hi there.

I have a 14 month old chorkie. I've had him since he was 8 weeks old. Due to personal difficulties and difficulties at home he spent a lot of time with me at my parents house.

Every weekend he goes to stay with my parents, Friday until Sunday. Sometimes I go too, sometimes I stay at home. Also, whenever we're away for a few days he'll go.

Generally when he goes to my parents he's okay. In the last couple of weeks when he's been at home he's been waking up during the night. Usually around 4am then again at 6am then at 8am (when I get up with him). He doesn't want to go to the toilet, just wants to sit with me on the settee. I sit with him for 10 mins then put him back in bed. (He sleeps in the living room in a cage - we had him in his cage in our room up until he was about 7 months old but was advised to move him downstairs). At my parents house however, he'd sleep in until 10am.

He went to my mums yesterday as we are going away for a few days. However last night he was up with her at 4am, she took him to the toilet and went back to bed but she said he was continuously barking until 6.30am then he settled and started again at 8am which is similar to how he is here.

Am I making him unhappy because of him being between my house and my parents? He loves my mum and dad and when he's there, with me or without he does seem generally happy, playing, eating etc.

Is there something I could do to stop him barking so much during the night. I've read a lot on the internet about chorkies being very needy dogs.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated as I don't know what to do.

Thank you.
 
#2 ·
Any sudden change in a dog's behaviour could be caused by pain or discomfort, so a vet check would probably be the first thing.

Have you actually been getting up in the early hours and sitting on the sofa with him?

If you have, that's a very bad habit to begin and he could quickly learn to bark to get attention.

If you're happy with him sleeping in your room, in his cage, then maybe move him back and see if he settles.

Could there be anything happening outside that's disturbing him at that time?
 
#3 ·
He was at the vet on Sunday for his booster check up and she did a lot of checks on him, she took his temp, listened to his heart, gave him a pretty good examination. I explained that sometimes he's sick and brings up bile hence why the examination was a little more thorough.

Well a few weeks ago, our curtain pole fell down, the mother in law bought us a new pole with some new curtains, trouble is they're practically see through, I thought this could be disturbing him as he tends to wake when it's light. Although I'm not sure why that would've caused him to wake last night at my mums.

I know this may sound silly but I'm wondering if he needs another canine companion. Theres a little westie up the road and he absolutely loves him. Whenever we take Pepper for a walk he always aims straight to his house, once there we have to literally pick him up to get him to come home.

I thought about maybe moving him back upstairs but I'm worried this may cause separation anxiety when we go out of the house. He goes to dog crèche now and again and has taken part in puppy training classes. It was the trainer who advised me to move him downstairs but many people I know have their dogs in bed with them! I tried this with him a couple of weeks ago and the first night was fine, he slept until 9.30am but the following night he just wouldn't settle.

Thanks for your help.
 
#7 ·
I only sit with him for 10 minutes or so until he settles then I put him back in his cage. Not sure if this is the best thing for him.
It doesn't matter how long you sit with him. The fact is that you are teaching him that if he will wake up and make some noise you will come and keep him company. You only encourage it when you do it several times during the early hours.
 
#8 ·
I only sit with him for 10 minutes or so until he settles then I put him back in his cage. Not sure if this is the best thing for him.
I was making that mistake with my pup. Because it was easier for me to know she's snoozing again before going back to bed.
I then changed it so if she barked I went downstairs, directed her to her bed and then immediately went back upstairs. First few nights I didn't always make it all the way up the stairs before she barked again but now she doesn't bother. She sleeps through much longer and even entertains herself if I have a lie in at the weekend.
I was advised to ignore the barking entirely but I thought it best to spare the neighbours being sleep-deprived too! And this way had worked just as well with minimal stress.