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Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Sorcha, May 18, 2010.


  1. Sorcha

    Sorcha PetForums Senior

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    Today it's my OH's and mine 20th wedding anniversary. It's quite special to us and all of our friends in Holland know about it. These days we keep in touch via a forum we all visit every day. We share everything there. No one even remembered to congratulate me today though and that hurts. I wrote a little blog yesterday, about our celebratory weekend and they all read that, I could see that. Am I being childish about this?
    It's just that if feels like we're growing farther apart since we moved to Wales and not just literary ;)
    I didn't expect any cards because I know that costs money, but it feels a little empty now, specially since my OH is working in Leicester, so I won't see him before friday evening.
    Sorry for this, rant over ;)
     
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    we are all here for you

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  3. Sorcha

    Sorcha PetForums Senior

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    Oh my goodness thanks for that :D
    I didn't expect anything like this, but it's lovely, thank you!!!!
     
  4. Aurelia

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    I can totally understand. You feel the occasion is special why wouldn't you!

    Congratulations :D 20 years is a big deal!

    Is there any way you can get to your hubby tonight? Not sure how far you are from him, but would it make a nice surprise if you turned up and gave him a treat ;) It's how special it feels to the both of you that counts most of all!
     
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    And Congratulations to you both xx
     
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    oh no!

    wow, 20th anniversary is a big deal!

    congratulations!
     
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    happy anniversary!!! :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup:
     
  9. Sorcha

    Sorcha PetForums Senior

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    Thank you so much everyone :D
    It's a lovely thought Aurelia and it would be very nice to see him today, but I'm near Swansea and we haven't got too much to spend. We talk every day via Yahoo messenger though, so we'll do that later. I'm going to make our next weekend extra special I think. Ohhh and he only left early this morning. We had a long weekend together :)
     
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    It is normal for you to be feeling like this, I think it is home sickness and missing your close friends and family that is making you feel worse. Sending hugs and wishing you both a wonderfull anniversary. xx (((((((hugs))))))))

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    Hope you have had a good day!
     
  12. Sorcha

    Sorcha PetForums Senior

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    Thank you so much Welshcrazy :D
    Yes it's mainly the fact I'm on my own here. Well I'm not really on my own ofcourse. I think we're going to have a party tonight. Glass op port for me and treats for the hairballs :D
     
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    I dont think you are being childish at all!!!! We all love to hear nice things and be congratulated etc. Lets face it there is enough bad going on - we need to keep the feel good remarks going.
    I am sure if it were your friends anniversary or special occasion they would want to hear from you. :confused:
    Sounds like a case of dont do as you would be done by and it's v wrong in my opinion.:mad:

    Hope you manage to find some happiness today and hopefully you will have a wonderful celebration with your OH when he comes home.:D:D

    Happy 20th Anniversary:thumbup:
     
  14. Sorcha

    Sorcha PetForums Senior

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    Thanks Mum2heidi :D

    Yes we always congratulate one another. Make a special topic with nice pics and wishes. Well just like you all did for me here and you don't even know me irl :D

    It really means a lot to me everyone :D

    I'm going to check if my OH is on yahoo already :D
     
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    It is hard to settle into a new area and until you make alot more friends you are bound to be feeling like this, you still have your mate back where you came from and when you visit it will be nice for you. You and hubby do something nice together, you have a brilliant mile stone 20 years is brilliant. Big Congratulations xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
     
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    Happy 20th Anniversary x
     
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    It does hurt when people forget but Happy Anniversary from Sunny Wigan. 20 years is something to be very proud of in this day and age!
     
  18. Sorcha

    Sorcha PetForums Senior

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    Thanks guys :D
    You've all made my special day a lot more special :)
     
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    happy anniversary :D
     
  20. MissShelley

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    Aww bless ya! hope your feeling better now :( I don't blame you for being narked, doesn't take much to write a few words! And on that bombshell!!! HAPPY ANNIVERSARY! :thumbup1: :)
     
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